In Her Own Words
About her
I’m an independent, confident woman who has built a good life for myself and am now looking for someone special to share the next chapter with. I value honesty, kindness, intelligence, and genuine connection. Travel is one of my greatest passions. I’m far more interested in wandering through local markets, discovering hidden restaurants, exploring historic sites, and experiencing a country’s culture than spending two weeks roasting on a beach lounger.
Whether it’s a city break, a scenic road trip, or an adventure to somewhere completely new, I love discovering different places, people, food, and history.
I enjoy dining out, good conversation, and the occasional finer things in life. I’m financially independent and perfectly capable of paying my own way, so I’m not looking for a sugar daddy or a supported social life
I am old fashioned and like to listen to music with lyrics and a good melody - Ella Fitzgerald, Cole Porter, Gershwin, swing jazz. However, I still enjoy soul, funk, and modern pop music; I enjoy the music from my soul days. A blast from the past, big bad Steve Walsh at the Lyceum in London, getting down to the Fat Back Band and crowding onto the dance floor when the first beats of Jingo Ba started. If you know, you know
If you enjoy exploring the world, appreciate good food and good company, and are genuinely looking for a real connection with someone who has her own life, interests, and independence, I’d love to hear from you.
About her ideal match
What I appreciate is a man who has worked hard, is financially secure, and is now in a position to enjoy life and make the most of it. Ideally, you’ll be between 50 and 65, emotionally mature, mentally curious, and able to hold a conversation on everything from current affairs and travel to history, books, culture, or simply the events of the day. Emotional intelligence, kindness, and integrity matter far more to me than flashy displays or superficial attractions. I’m looking for someone who is established in life, financially responsible, and ready for a genuine relationship. A man who knows what he wants, values commitment, and is interested in building a meaningful partnership rather than casual dating, hookups, or passing experiences
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
High Wycombe (Buckinghamshire), Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/Caribbean descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district HP12 (High Wycombe) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |