In Her Own Words
About her
I live in a quiet village in the South Hams, making occasional forays into towns and cities for a hit of culture. Artistic, gentle and affectionate, I can be a little shy until I get to know people.
I retired from book publishing long ago, and appreciate being able to read whatever I like whenever I like (e.g. Paul Theroux, Mick Herron, Susie Boyt, Rachel Cusk). I love walking, in the lanes, up on Dartmoor or along the coast, and swimming in the sea, provided it isn’t bone-chillingly cold. My roots in the West Country run deep. I have a good network of family and friends in the area, but no children of my own.
I garden sporadically, don’t mind painting and decorating, and can use a power drill and rawl-plugs, albeit reluctantly. I no longer drink alcohol or eat garlic, but won't object if you do. Otherwise, I eat healthily/most things. Cooking for one wears a bit thin.
Apolitical/leftish (why can't people just behave?!). Lapsed Catholic; survivor of convent boarding-school. I speak some Spanish, having spent my early childhood in South and Central America. My spoken French is tentative. I draw, paint and make dry-point etchings.
Slow Horses and Normal People, yes; reality tv and soaps, no. Have seen in concert: Neil Young, The Grateful Dead, The Band, Pink Floyd, Teddy Thompson, Van Morrison et al. More recently, the Devon Baroque Orchestra and Harry Christophers’ Sixteen. I listen to early and baroque music rather than rock these days.
About her ideal match
Happy to travel, for the right person, I would welcome congenial male company, for conversation, walks, pub lunches, exhibitions, short trips away, evenings by the fire – and, with luck, some laughs 😊
I’m hoping to meet a good-humoured, robust, relaxed man, perhaps with his own interests – rock-climbing, vintage vehicles, rugby or whatever – he might not expect me to share. If you’re very right-wing, fanatical about fitness, or a hard-line atheist, we might not get on.
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About her
Country of origin: |
India | |
Location: |
Kingsbridge, Devon, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district TQ9 (Totnes) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
68 - 74 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Gardening; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Hiking; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





