In Her Own Words
About her
I am fun to be with, good conversationalist, entertaining - am usually tolerant of others though with strong opinions on political social issues, Culturally refined with wide range of interests in theatre, art, cinema, literature, For lifestyle I walk regularly, do yoga and pilates, occasionally garden, and for leisure read, watch movies, visit galleries and go to the theatre. My outlook is one of 'liberal' benevolence, with concern about the way the world is going, and wish it were a better place . Seek to find fulfilment in a stimulating, loving relationship and remain optimistic. I was widowed last year. At present I travel between New Zealand where I have family, and England where I have been working for over 20 years, and where I am based in retirement (I was a university lecturer in English), resarching, editing, giving occasional lectures. These interests continue to expand through various networks and professional links, but i am also open to exploring other avenues of life and leisure with the right person
About her ideal match
Someone who is entertaining and good company, who can see the humour in situations, make an impression socially and in public, yet be thoughtful and considerate. I look for flexibility and tolerance as well as the buzz of shared interests, while mutual attraction and some chemistry matter. Finding intimacy and romance would be a bonus. I am attracted by the unusual and the challenge of the unknown hence appreciate creativity in approaching problems, and a passion and enthusiasm for work and life. Being able to develop mutual friendships, a domestic life, and enjoy social, cultural and outdoors activities are all desirable in my ideal match
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About her
Country of origin: |
New Zealand | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district OX4 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
70 - 88 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Most days | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Generous; Independent; Loyal; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |






