In His Own Words
About him
If you're looking for a perfect physical specimen then I'm afraid I'm only going to disappoint you, but if you've always dreamed of having a skeletally thin, prematurely greying, short-sighted, hearing-impaired, limping partner, then read on because I am clearly ideal for you.
I am prone to throwing random trivia into a conversation (did you know that Liechtenstein is a major exporter of false teeth?), and going off on weird tangents because something the other person said reminded me of something else (I remember that time when...). So don't expect a conversation with me to proceed in an orderly sequence.
I also tell jokes, although the quality of them is in the assessment of the listener (How is an iPhone like a medieval knight? Neither of them lasts long without their charger).
Other things - I live surrounded by books (and have even written one). Home office doubles as a library, but that doesn't stop me fitting a few extra bookcases in other rooms as well. I don't stick to a particular genre or author, I just read whatever interests me. Might be history, science, travel, global affairs, sport...
I'm a great nature lover - that can mean long walks but doesn't have to... strolling through a wood, around a lake, by a river or along a clifftop is wonderfully refreshing regardless of distance or speed. Very much not of the school of thought that walking has to be in a national park - you can enjoy it almost anywhere; there are many lovely routes in urban areas. Will always stop to read an information board and learn something about the nature or history of the area!
I travel as much as I can - when not actually doing so, I treasure the memories of past trips and look forward to future ones. I like to get off the beaten track where possible - the best adventures usually happen in the most obscure places!
The rest of the time I can usually be found playing the French horn (badly) in a local amateur orchestra. My idea of an evening out is a concert or play; for a day trip I'd go to a museum or historic site.
About his ideal match
Someone to go through the ups and downs of life with. To celebrate together when we've earned it, to support each other when we need it, to share intelligent conversation or a good laugh - and to explore the world together, whether that's a trip across continents or just a walk in the nearest park.
I wouldn't say many things are dealbreakers, but lack of a sense of adventure would make things difficult. If you prefer resorts and package tours, we are probably not going to find a holiday which we both enjoy.
Narrow-mindedness and an inability to reason would definitely be terminal - no conspiracy theorists please.
Also, I am a former English teacher and committed grammar pedant, so if you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're", I fear that a relationship is unlikely to work.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Birmingham, West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
6' 6" (198cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
28 - 43 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 9" (144cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Quiet; Sarcastic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Wild; Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Chess; Cricket; Hiking; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |