In Her Own Words
About her
The easiest way to tell you about me is to describe my perfect Sunday - early morning in bed with tea, paper, dog & cat, then a long cross country walk with the dog (whatever the weather) or time on the river sailing or just messing before returning to light the fire and get roast on. Cutting logs, diy jobs, laughing, lazy afternoon stroll round the castle to watch the sun go down before an evening on the sofa, red wine, cheese, chilli jam discussing why we don't listen to the Top 20 anymore.
I am an 80's girl, I could do anything my brothers could do, I went to college, qualified as a chartered surveyor, worked my way up to powerful job in the City, found the "perfect" man then mixed this with having kids .....then things fell apart, a roller coaster ride (which seems so normal nowadays) and I find myself 15 years on having brought up 2 independent boys as a solo parent back in the countryside. A bit battered and bruised but really proud of what I have done. So things didn’t work out how I expected but I am strangely contented but I really miss having someone to share the triumphs, fun times, crap days and just to mull over the world.
No 1 son is at Uni & No 2 son doing Alevels remotely instead of boarding school! Most of the time it is me and my furry friends but I enjoy the peace of good walks, a rewarding job, lovely home, live jigsaw on the kitchen table & amazing human friends. If any of this makes sense to you then read on to find out more....
About her ideal match
I’d love be swept off my feet by a funny, kind, intelligent man who agrees that society's going to hell and that the old style of Range Rover looked better than the current one.
I am looking for someone who knows where an apostrophe lives in a sentence, who can flip between sophisticated and a bit mucky as the situation demands. I do have a few things that I find hard to live with: tattoos, piercings, smokers & massive drinkers.... thank you for spending the time to get to the end! Please message me as my first question is always a silly one - just send me the answer - and I will tell you the question!
Xx
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Saxmundham (Framlingham), Suffolk, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district IP13 (Woodbridge) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Field Hockey; Fishing; Hiking; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Flirting; Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
