About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northampton, Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district NN1 (Northampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
I come from a relatively academic background, and enjoy the world of ideas and the arts, but also love the physicality of the outdoors, of music, of touch (including hugs!) - and I have plenty of hidden (and not so hidden) shallows.
Medicine has always mattered to me and it keeps me fairly grounded (even if I have my enthusiasms too!); but I don't define myself by work - life is too big and colourful..
I am politically left-leaning, pretty egalitarian in outlook and care about values; but kindness (however indefinable) matters more to me than ideology.
I had a liberal, open-minded religious upbringing and retain some, though not all, of that (I find the questions matter more than the answers).
I like to think I am easy to be around as well as thoughtful, caring and committed to friends, family - and any partner who might choose to explore more of life with me.
I have had an innate desire to bring up children for much of my life. I am at a point where I can also let that go now and embrace so many other things life has to offer. If a partner were open to the possibility, it would be lovely, but a relationship that can combine both a gentle depth of understanding and lightness of touch matters most.
You should be aware that I have an intractable feud with my, otherwise delightful, sister-in-law about the correct proportions for making crumble. For reasons I cannot fathom, she persists if refusing to acknowledge that she is wrong! Siding with her in this matter could just be a deal-breaker..
About his ideal match
I imagine my ideal kind-hearted fellow traveller as open-minded, generous-spirited, fun and adventerous, but with a sensitive streak too; someone who isn't afraid of the tough questions in life, but enjoys living life fully alongside them; someone who is prepared to challenge me (and herself) and enjoys the outdoors and the arts.
But life has taught me that joy is often in the unexpected - so I am prepared - indeed happy! - to be surprised...
There are very few things I would find difficult to accept in a partner, given that we are all, to some extent, bundles of contradictions (or maybe I should just speak for myself?). But I would struggle to cope with someone for whom passive aggression is a frequent means of communication.
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More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts |
Sports: |
Cycling; Rock climbing; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Honesty: |
Very |