In Her Own Words
About her
I'm looking for a best friend, lover and hopefully partner to share the arts, entertainment, food, travel and intimacy. I don't want to spend forever texting, I'd prefer to talk on the phone and meet up to see if there's a 'spark'.
Stuff I like: Trying out a new recipes on my family. The feeling at the end of running at dawn. Music venues especially if my son is playing. Learning new things. Dinner with old friends. Filling a page of my sketch book. Wild swimming. My kids. Loving, and knowing I'm loved. Laughter. A brilliant Tom Stoppard production in the theatre. My wonderful friends. An art exhibition full of surprises. Freshly brewed coffee. Work, especially when I know I’ve made my clients happy. Beauty; in people and in nature. Earl Grey tea. Finding that perfect designer dress in a charity shop. Jo Wicks fitness routines. Exploring new places, with a companion who gets it. Boats and the sea. A book so good I will read all night to get to the end. Generosity of spirit. Discovering new things. Openness. Honesty. Random acts of kindness. Humour.
I dislike: Prejudice and bigotry. Arrogance. Rudeness. Technology, when it goes wrong. Indifference. Sulking. Unkindness.
That's me. I'm straightforward; not moody or difficult. Most people (but not all) like me and enjoy my company. I'm not interested in casual. If I do a relationship I give it everything. If it doesn't work out it won't be for want of commitment. The photographs are recent, and are me!?
I live near to St Albans. I'm happy to meet people in Herts or London.
About her ideal match
You'll be
Single, but probably been married, with children. Honest, warm, generous, and you'll value kindness. A one-woman man, but if you have children they will come first. Emotionally intelligent and self-assured. Tactile but monogamous. Gregarious but happy on your own. Laughing most of the time (especially at yourself), but comfortable with tears too. Probably be passionate about the arts in some form. Interested in almost everything.
If there's the right kind of spark, ultimately I'm looking for a long term relationship. However, if I pick up some 'just friends' on the way that will be a bonus.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Uganda | |
Location: |
St Albans (St. Albans), Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district AL4 (St. Albans) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Dance; Rugby; Sailing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |