In Her Own Words
About her
I’m empathetic, good fun, a good listener, a caring person, mostly optimistic, enthusiastic, tolerant, interested in the world around me, confident, like to look at the humorous side of life. I’m honest and straightforward. Energetic. I’m keen to try new experiences, and explore new places. All this is much more enjoyable with a good companion to share it with.
I’ve travelled a good deal in Europe, North Africa, Middle East, Far Eastbut still haven’t been to South America which is my next ambition. I lived, worked, researched and brought up 4 children in Hong Kong. I went there for a year to do some research in social anthropology and stayed and stayed... Through that I think I acquired a respect for and enjoyment of other cultures. Came home to Oxford in the early 2000s and enjoy what it has to offer. In the last couple of years I have been trying to improve my drawing and painting abilities, which I find hugely absorbing and exciting.
About her ideal match
A confident, tolerant man who is comfortable in his own skin, wants to understand others, who would share his interests and enthusiasms, who appreciates ‘otherness’ and would let me be myself and take an interest in my enthusiasms while retaining an independent spirit. Emotional intimacy very precious. Also someone to go travelling with, go walking with, go to concerts, theatre, art exhibitions. Honesty and truthfulness essential. And a sense of humour and emotional intelligence
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Chinese; French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX2 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Swimming; Table Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
