In His Own Words
About him
A caring, intelligent, tactile and stand up guy who loves life's adventure and looking for someone to share new experiences. I live in the country in a small village near Salisbury.
Have a positive outlook on life and very fit and active. I play golf, but not very well, power walk every day, an active photographer and international defence commentator. I'm well travelled, having had a senior international role during my working career and retain a very keen interest in fine art, music, theatre, photography, science, technology, current affairs and rugby, having played at school, University and later.
I'm proud father of two adult children, a boy and girl and two grandchildren. One lives in Buckinghamshire and the other in West Sussex. I see them as often as I can. Over five years ago I lost my long term partner.
I'm very comfortable in my own skin and have no hangups with a lady being taller than me.
Friends say that I'm good fun to be with and always have a funny story to tell about life experiences. Ask me about the time I needed to use the toilet on a small regional aircraft in Canada, that stopped at another airfield on route to pick up other passengers.
My favourite destinations for holidays in Europe are Italy, France and Switzerland.
About his ideal match
Someone who loves to laugh and doesn't take life too seriously, but enjoys meaningful and intelligent conversations. Also likes exploring new things and is definitely tactile.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Salisbury, Wiltshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
82 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SP5 (Salisbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
61 - 76 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Advertising / PR; Media; IT / Telecoms; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Cricket; Dance; Golf; Hiking; Rugby; Running; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |







