In His Own Words
About him
I'm not sure you "should" - you might LIKE to get know to me if you're looking for a man who's eminently reasonable, respectful, well-mannered, well-educated, caring and, well ... considerate... and often makes people laugh (deliberately).
If you're searching for the looks and / or bank balance of George Clooney, look away now. I'm something of a niche product - more broadsheet than tabloid; perhaps more Green & Blacks than Cadbury's Dairy Milk. If I was a cup of coffee, I'd be an analogy.
I'm not every woman's cup of tea: I'd like to be one woman's glass of whiskey. I'm not a conspiracy theorist, brexiteer or golfer.
I'm not a fashion victim, but certainly not a scruff and never wear shorts (except for swimming). A while ago I completed a part-time Masters in Psychology but I won't claim to be able to read you like a book.
I have no pets, no superstitious beliefs of any kind, and no strange habits - unless you regard avoiding anything to do with football as strange: I loathe football - is that a loathing you share?
In most areas of life, I'm something of a theorist, except cooking; I'm surprisingly practical and quite creative in the kitchen. And I can operate a washing machine and dishwasher all by myself.
Things I like include:
Autumn Leaves (on the trees, underfoot and especially as a jazz solo); biking along the canal to a pub; Chablis, double bass (but I can't actually play one); E Type Jaguars (but I don't actually own one); firelight, gin & tonic, humour of Ayckbourn, Stoppard and others; Italian restaurants, Jacques Loussier, (the) Lake District, mountain biking, New York, Orwell, Psychology & Philosophy (not just of the second bottle of Rioja variety) ...
(K is missing - can you help?)
About his ideal match
What an appealing idea - that somewhere, out there, is an ideal partner; 100% compatible. I don't suppose I'm precisely what you're looking for - and vice-versa - but as I've painted an honest picture of myself, it's only right to try to provide one of you.
A sketch inevitably reveals something of the artist... But it is just a sketch - not a specification!
You're an independent, intelligent single woman, and of course a sexy and attractive one. I don't have a template of what constitutes 'attractive': however, I guess you're articulate, humorous and honest, an elegant career woman who does something interesting for a living.
You have interests - not obsessions. Is that you?
Realistically, no couple can share every taste, but you feel that sharing civilized values, a sense of integrity, a sense of humour, and sharing wine - and a duvet - is important. Is that you?
Nothing too controversial so far, so let me sketch in a few more details (which might well be).
About 30% of UK households contain a dog - yours doesn't.
At the real risk of appearing over-prescriptive, or intolerant, you’re really not a lesbian, a marxist, a pollyanna, retired, a swinger, teetotal, or a vegan (note this is a shorter alphabetical list) … You suspect that praying or using star signs is like trying to solve algebra by chewing gum. (You don't chew gum, smoke (anything) or have tattoos; why would you?)
Now for the really sensitive issue: I really don't want to offend, I'm just being open and upfront about this (I said I was honest!): you are child-free.
Are you still there?
You are: GREAT; thankyou for reading this far. Most will have self-filtered out by now. If you haven't, I'm already thinking you're rather special, and if you contact me I will respond.
Of course, we also need to fancy each other like mad...
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Birmingham, West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district B63 (Halesowen) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite colour: |
Silver |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Jazz |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
