In Her Own Words
About her
I'm expressive, emotionally articulate, and not really built for small talk — but I've got a big heart and an even bigger appetite for life. Mine is full: art, some of which I sculpt myself, a big vegetable and flower allotment, rowing, pilates and light weights, close friendships, and my delightful young child with whom I now confidently press forward in gratitude and forgivness of the past; living a stable, free and content life.
I'm plant-based/vegan, live by the Christian faith as best I can, because nobody's perfect. I'm looking for a long-term partner to begin, and eventually something more official with a man who shares that worldview and wants to build something bigger and broader together - not adapt or mask themselves just to fit into mine. I'd also welcome a blended family, if that's part of your story too. At the end I desire a good life of laughter, peace, and enjoying one another every moment we get.
About her ideal match
Respectfully, I would not consider a man with chemical, physical or digital addictions - I would not consider dating a bisexual or bicurious man as a personal preference, kindly refrain from making contact with me if you match those dealbreakers. Thank you.
Having done the inner work to be completely confident and at home with who I am as a woman, and I am looking for a man who is equally grounded, open-minded and completely at ease with who he is: someone who values himself, a bold and unapologetically masculine man, confident, self-respecting in is personal and values his health both psychological and physical - comfortable in his own mind, body and soul. A man with plans and goals of his own and perhaps even for his eventual love to be included because he wants to. All of those things that I ask from a man, are what I also give as a woman and more.
If that matches you, then I'm interested to find out if we're equally yoked - maybe end up with Sunday mornings at the allotment, church or maybe weekends away together as often as we can, living a life that is as full and passionate as it is peaceful.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Finland | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Other; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, living with me | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Labour / Construction; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; Home maker | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Curly; It has its moods |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
History; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Sculpting |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Fencing; Rowing; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |