In Her Own Words
About her
I'm a believer in making the most of the time we have - not with frippery but with kindness, laughs, love and respect. I'm caring and giving and expect the same in return. I like nature, music, a good podcast, a flat white overlooking the sea, my little garden and a run on a sunny day. I enjoy exercise, languages and time with my friends and my dad.
I love to smile, I would rather eat rice than pasta, I have a firm grasp of the Spanish subjunctive and I definitely don't want to spend nights in a camper van or tent.
About her ideal match
Let's be equal in our effort, communication, commitment and intention. What's the point otherwise? Shared goals and a desire to make each other feel safe are important to me - if it doesn't feel peaceful and stable we're not a match.
I'd like to get to know someone patiently and slowly, if you're in a hurry I'll wonder why. If we have to be busy all the time I'll wonder what's wrong with having quiet time. Please be fit and life motivated but understanding that 'noise' doesn't mean 'happy'. If you have not resolved your past please don't get in touch.
Beards and sandals are obviously difficult, but always open-minded :)
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lymington, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SO41 (Lymington) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Happy; Loving; Loyal; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Dance; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

