In His Own Words
About him
I'd like to think that in getting to know me you'll enjoy someone who is good company, can be flirty and fun but also sustain a deep conversation about serious stuff. I have wide-ranging interests in lots of things and like to think I have a positive outlook on life. I also like to think of myself as emotionally intelligent: I'm very patient and calm and quite good in a crisis (not that I have many of those, thankfully!). I have tons of interests that include major DIY, singing in choirs, going to the theatre, garden work, growing vegetables, being sustainable, exploring ancient ruins and visiting places where history is deep and vibrant.
I'm fit and active but not a gym junkie, I'm lucky in that I've always had a natural fitness and general zest for life. Most people say I look young for my age, deep joy!
I like animals but I'm not too keen on someone who has a dog or pets that are the centre of their life.
For fun or to relax I'd enjoy a good quality meal with a nice glass of merlot, or going to a classical music concert, or visiting a museum or National Trust place. I love hot sunny places, so going off to a beautiful historic city or location would be fab. I do enjoy beaches but after about 30 minutes on my towel I'd be looking for something to do...
About his ideal match
Ideally I'd like to find a lovely lady who has an active mind that is still curious about life, with an appreciation of culture, music and landscapes. Your home might show a fondness for Arts and Crafts, you might enjoy visiting stately homes and hopefully you'll enjoy listening to classical music. I am very attracted to intelligence, so if you're cultured and well-educated that would be grand. I love a lady who flirts and enjoys affection and is happy to show that affection when we're out together or back home.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Winchester, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
North America; France; Switzerland; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Hair style: |
Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; History; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sports: |
Badminton; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |






