In His Own Words
About him
I’m a caring and kind man. I hold a PhD in neuroscience, so if you’re into brain-talks, I might be the right man. I work in higher education and love what I do.
Outside of work, I’m passionate about philosophy (Wittgenstein, Heidegger, and Dostoevsky are favourites), literature (Vergil, Neruda, Yates...), and music, which I also enjoy playing. I enjoy gardening and martial arts, and love life as it is.
I can cook… but I’m not great at it—so if you’re handy in the kitchen, I’d welcome your help 😒
About his ideal match
I look for an attractive, traditional, and intelligent lady with a positive vibe who appreciates life's finer moments, loves books, music, and coffee, and can cook. I hope to meet a girl to write a new love story and share it in the next chapter of my life...
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Maidstone, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German; Russian; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Chinese; Dutch; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Faithful; Loving; Loyal; Quiet |
Valued qualities: |
Friendliness; Honesty; Humility |
Fashion sense: |
Designer (I'm a slave to designer labels) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sports: |
Chess; Hiking; Martial arts |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |