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SpiffyKoala

50 – Wandsworth, London, England

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SpiffyKoala

50 – Wandsworth, London, England

Thranduil seeks daughter of the forest, Anoana, or Nomvula

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About him

Looking for a new friend and activity partner to begin with. I'm autistic, with Misophonia, PTSD and a fair amount of sensory overwhelm so what I can do is limited. I like walking, playing cards, juggling, doodling, chucking around a frisbee, swimming, writing poetry. That sort of thing.

I'm very interested in Fantasy, Mythology and to a lesser extent Sci-fi. I paint Warhammer miniatures when I can, and enjoy playing Magic: The Gathering. I'd like to play D&D one day in the right environment. I also enjoy 2 person French Tarot, at a quiet café if I can manage it.

I want to practice my French, maybe learn a smidge of German and have an interest in writing poetry and learning some of Tolkien's languages such as Sindarin and Quenya. I'm not sure I want to learn whole languages, but I want to learn some phrases in a few languages I like the sound of.

I'd like to be able to draw Fantasy cartoons, but also New Yorker style cartoons. I think a good cartoon combines intelligence, wit, and humour, in a very enjoyable form.

I love the sea and am trying to push myself to be able to travel more. Cornwall would be ambitious for me right now, but I'd love to go one day. Tintagel is on my list. I mainly walk on Wimbledon Common or go through Canizarro Park these days, the latter of which is particularly lovely, especially in spring.

I have a law degree, including having studied European Law in Belgium, but taught myself web development, went into New Media when the Internet kicked off, working on web sites for some of the world's top brands, and then specialised in e-commerce after that. I worked for a music company and then high end fashion brands.

My personal situation is complicated, but I'm an honest person and won't mess anyone around. I'm looking for a new friend at the moment, somebody I feel strongly about, and keen to see where that goes. Dipping my toes in the pool.

I've been on this site before, a long time ago. Successfully. My son is now 17 and a drummer in a couple of bands. Time flies.

About his ideal match

Someone I can do things with, and who will be understanding that some activities are challenging for me. This would suit someone who has a fair amount of independent interests. Someone who is nice to talk to and be with. A gentle, sensitive soul, with a lively sense of humour, and some fire.

An interest in Fantasy would be good. I'm quite keen on art and nature. I've also watched a lot of movies and like to talk about that sometimes, and like a wide range of music.

I'm currently going through a phase of listening to a lot of Country music (e.g. Jason Isbell, Lainey Wilson), but I'm most consistently a fan of International stuff like Laura Pausini (Italian), Jacques Brel (French), Cheb Khaled (Arabic Rai), Freshlyground (South African) and Maro (Portuguese), as well as genres like Rock, Pop, Cure music (The Cure) and some Metal (e.g. Beyond Temptation, Visions of Atlantis), as well as Folk (e.g. Heilung). Absolutely love Heilung's Anoana song. I like Grunge (e.g. Pearl Jam), Hip Hop and some Rap (e.g. LL Cool J). Dance/Electronic (e.g. David Guetta, The Chemical Brothers) and Eurodance (e.g. Sash, Haddaway). Guitar stuff also good (e.g. Rodrigo y Gabriela, Steve Vai, Nita Strauss). Mostly just on headphones. A whole lot of other stuff including Classical and Opera.

Although I can't manage to travel abroad anymore, I do like to talk about other countries and cultures. I've travelled a fair amount in the past, and grew up in Hong Kong. I'm half English and half French, was an Erasmus student in Belgium for a while, so being part of Europe is in my blood.

I don't work and find the quieter times in the week more manageable, so someone with free time in the quieter times during the week would be ideal.

Footnote: I'm on here to get out there and do things, so would rather meet up than spend too much time messaging online. I also like to be present in the world so avoid smart phones when out and about. My ideal match would be equally present in the world. The world is a beautiful place.

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About him

Country of origin:
Hong Kong
Location:
Wandsworth, London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
50
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Stocky
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
It's Complicated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
University
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district SW19 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
35 - 49
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality traits:
Faithful; Funny; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Disabilities:
Other
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery
Music preferences:
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Sci-Fi
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Music; Painting; The arts; Writing poetry
Sports:
Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking
More lifestyle
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Likes & dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
The deep stuff
Honesty:
Extremely