In Her Own Words
About her
Straightforward, thinker. Empathic, feminine. Practical problem solver, positive outlook. Good conversation, enjoy quiet time or social. Playful, fun. A serious, thoughtful streak which translates into writing & business. Ive worked extremely hard on my work & believe in it. Not sure I get the concept of retirement. Passionate about people and life, they matter. Affectionate. Like some, have done tough choices & experiences, so personal growth is key, makes for tolerance & understanding, Means you can be real and honest with me. Curious, love learning. Flexible. Love art & creativity. Friends say im fun, creative, driven & courageous. Easy laughter, comfortable in my own skin. Loyal & supportive who asks for what im able to give you, to be given in return. Love my home tucked in the hills, with views, a lot of birds, and beautiful garden, enjoy being outside and in beautiful landscapes. Love the sea, rivers, boats, sunshine and smiles. Happy motorhoming, camping&cooking over a fire, fine hotels and dining. Simple things can be best. Relocated, rebuilding a life, new qualifications, new business. Enthusiastic re new ideas. My daughter says Ive barely aged since my 40s, so age is just a number with the right mindset. Its been tough but why waste time waiting until its all perfect and being on your own when you can share the journey and enrich our lives with love and laughter. I do think its hard to do a dating thing as we get older stepping into anothers life esp as we are not 20 or 40 and I dont want to pretend I am. Im good being me. looking to share a different kind of later life with someone completely new i must confess i find a little daunting but open to the process. I have been known to climb Bow Fell, canoeing & kayaking, camping and potholing (once only !) Creaky spine but always open. Love lazy version of being on boats. Ill be your chef and gut and cook the fish we just caught!
About her ideal match
Be comfortable in your own skin, real and open. Kind. Positive , ie no negative. Can do attitude. Dependable and reliable, present. Ive learnt a lot/bit! about how men work, and thats good with me. (Tale of two brains by Gungor is so funny) I do get stuck into things so would love to share with you. Dont need to be rescued or taken over. Give of yourself, ready smile, empathy. Generous of heart and mind. Share a zest for life but understand when its not so great. Understands life with two is better than one. Encourage me to get away from desk, be adventurous again, creaks and all. Be interested, help & share but having our own seperate interests, activities & work is good. Open curious mind, enoy learning. Mental connection as all flows from there. To want genuine quality connection, can say yes to a spontaneous smooch in the kitchen or bubbly on the beach under the stars. Life is too short to wait to make magic after all. I cant be too prescriptive because there is joy in the new and unknown.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Ventnor, Isle of Wight, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO38 (Ventnor) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Long |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Sculpting; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Dance; Fishing; Sailing; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Seafood; Thai |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |