In His Own Words
About him
After 14 years of marriage, I’m looking for a fresh start.
Born in America, went to school in Cambridge and Sussex, Durham University, lived and worked in Amsterdam, Mexico, Geneva and London.
You can have a half way decent intelligent conversation with me, and I have been known to be occasionally witty –at least that’s what my friend said.
I’m traditional but edgy, old school but not a prefect. I’m open to all kinds of new experiences and activities.
I would love to travel and explore new places, new countries, new areas, with a special somebody and I play a tricky game of tennis and can ski ugly effectively without hitting too many trees. I look after myself; I do weightlift but I’m no gym rat.
I’m equally happy walking around museums, art galleries or going out to films. I have interests in literature, history, art and current affairs.
If you talk, I will listen. My ears will swivel and my eyes will sparkle.
People who know me would say I’m intelligent, down to earth, gentle, fun, kind, different, considerate and loyal.
A man must have a code.
About his ideal match
My ideal woman would be bright, she would challenge me intellectually, and she could talk about anything. A woman with experience, both bad and good .
Someone who shares similar values and tastes, is down to earth, fun to be with and who wants to do things. Honesty and truthfulness are key.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district CB3 (Cambridge) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
36 - 53 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; German; Hebrew; Italian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Puerile |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Latin; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Internet; Investing; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Body building; Rugby; Skiing; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
