In His Own Words
About him
I have a zest for life and culture. I try to forget my age but hope that's all I forget. . I love music and the arts generally...oh I suppose they all say that. ( no culture haters on here!)
I still enjoy my work as a building designer and do it with a passion. The day that goes......???? I want to share a few of these things with you!
About his ideal match
Someone who shares my interests but will question and add...o.k. maybe occasionally subtract...in the nicest possible way. To laugh, to listen...( whether to birdsong or occasionally each other)
To be able to discuss without shouting but create something better than the two halves can do alone. Mutual respect and understanding.....that doesn't mean always agreeing.
To see theatre...especially after the lockdown. To hear music...dare I say Jazz even? To visit lovely places.
To enjoy beauty ....in the world and maybe in each other?
I would hope for a mind that was not extreme to the left or right....but as in my title...ectlectic...but that does not mean without principle.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district CT2 (Canterbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
58 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Protestant |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Independent |
Interests: |
Card games; Gardening; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
