In Her Own Words
About her
I like romantic beach walks, but also sometimes a bit spirited: tearing up and down, chasing waves, clambering over rocks, facing down a bracing wind, running into the water, the exhilaration of red cheeks, salt & sand in my hair. Scampering about with a dog (or human) who is deliriously happy that he's with me, absolutely exhausting himself with joy. Then escaping to shelter for a warm meal & wine, enjoying that wonderful, tingly muscly tired feeling of a full, satisfying, altogether superb day.
I love being on, in, near, over, under water. One day I'll live where I can awaken to the sound of waves lapping on a shore. Adore wild swimming. At first you're hesitant, it's cold, you enter tentatively, don't want to go in above your waist. Then you gather your courage, plunge in, it's fantastic and you wonder: why did I hesitate? This is heaven!
Is there a happier sight than sunlight sparkling on the water?
And water as snow . . that blanketed, quiet feeling of peace when you wake and all is pristine, white, muffled. That cold, sharp, almost achy feeling in your lungs when you arrive in the mountains, step out and take your first deep breath of the clear, piney air. Magic!
See me on the slopes, enjoying that snow on a sunny day?
I laugh. A lot. I’m well-educated/traveled and not afraid to use my brain. I enjoy good conversations, thoughtful discussions. Not a fan of small talk purgatory. I have a scary amount of energy. Might have a bit of a mischievous streak ...
I wouldn't turn down a decent wine, hunk of good cheese and/or an unconscionably long back rub if it were on offer. Preparing a meal with love, and sharing it over a relaxed evening or afternoon with family and friends and a good bottle of vino is an essential pleasure.
Does anyone read this far? If so, full disclosure. I am about 1/2 year in Italy, 1/2 UK; currently looking for a new place in the UK, my forever home.
I detest having my photo taken and am supremely unphotogenic, a curse in this photo-obsessed world. My photos are horrible. Sorry!
About her ideal match
A kind, decent, honest man who wants to give and receive love and affection.
Some thoughts: reasonable fitness because good health means mobility for an active life. But the sole pursuit of an external beauty at the expense of intellectual and emotional breadth and depth doesn't attract me. What’s inside a person is far more important than what the gym has created outside. Except I do admit a weakness for wickedly deep blue eyes (smile) and frequent smiles and laughter.
I’m independent and like my own space but seek a kindred spirit to share life's adventures, joys and ups as well as downs. First, a good friendship. Existing common interests to begin but it would be great to find someone who is the catalyst for me to discover and learn new things, challenges me, exposes me to different perspectives and encourages me to undertake activities that I might never have thought of or done before. I love learning new things and hope you do, too. Education is important to me.
I'm attracted to those who are kind, intellectually curious and care about the world around them. Someone who thinks giving and receiving love, kindness, affection matters. Oh, and who can hold a decent conversation.
Not fussed about this person's location except I want to be near water, preferably the sea. Oxford is not my permanent home. I'm looking with an open mind to put down roots elsewhere. It might be the Cornwall, Cumbria, Skye(!), the Highlands, might be where you are!
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ask me later | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian; Swedish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Austria; Finland; Germany; Ireland; Italy; Sweden; Switzerland; United Kingdom; Canada; United States | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
60 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Jazz; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Ivory Towers: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |