Help and Support

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Photo Tips

80% of members are unlikely to contact somebody without a profile picture.
40% wouldn't contact somebody who didn't have a GOOD photo.

Camera_tick Photos to use:
  • Ones where you look relaxed and approachable
  • Ones where you are smiling and looking happy
  • Photos on holiday or doing activities can work well
  • Photos which show the real you
Camera_cross Photos to avoid:
  • Photos which show people with children
  • Photos with other people in them
  • Passport photos that make you look like you are about to eat your last meal, rather than meet your potential life partner
  • Out-of-date photos featuring an old hairstyle / two stones lighter (or heavier!) / 15 years younger
  • A self portrait taken with a web cam at close range
  • Photos where you look drunk or ill